Today I would like to introduce another concept of Stoicism. Arguably the greatest Stoic to have ever lived was Marcus Aurelius, a man whose methods and books I find utterly intriguing and urge everyone to investigate. In his book meditations, he has a quote that I that begins the thought process of the today. “Our actions may be impeded… But there can be no impeding our intentions or our dispositions. Because we can accommodate and adapt. The mind adapts and converts to its own purposes the obstacle to our acting. The impeding to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.” That last line is the key to this whole concept. “What stands in our way becomes the way.”
I would like to give some examples of this mindset in action. I will note that I don’t know if these people practice any particular stoic practices or are in any way influenced by that mindset, but I can tell you that these mindsets are perfect literal examples of the mindset that Marcus Aurelius talks about. First up is one of the richest and most influential people on the planet, Oprah Winfrey. It is an impossible task to put into a couple of sentences the magnitude of her achievements, but she truly has grown herself from very little relatively into a world-famous name with incredible power and influence. In 1976 Oprah accepted her first news anchor job in Baltimore. She spent only a few months in a co-anchoring job with the king of the local news of the day, Jerry Turner. During these few months, Oprah was made fun of, she was humiliated on and off screen, she experienced the worst sexism the news rooms of those days had to offer and was also consistently demoted. However, if you ask her today about those experiences she will say that whilst they are not fond memories, their existence as obstacles turned her into a woman. Turned her into the Oprah Winfrey we know today. Instead of being beaten down in spirit by the happenings at this station, she took a step back and learned the lessons that were being provided to her. When she took her step back, she accepted the reality of the situation and made a conscious effort from then on to do her best to be a positive impact on all those around her. To gain enough influence, money, and spirit to actually make a difference for women in the work place starting with television. If adversary is the best teacher, Oprah Winfrey is one of the best students.
Our second story comes from arguably one of the greatest con men in history, Thomas Edison. Why he should be considered a con artist is a story for a different day, however there is a success story of his that applies this stoic mindset perfectly. He was coming home for dinner once, and he had his traditional family set up for dinner that night with his family. As he just settled down, someone from the community rushed into his home and told him that his factory was on fire. Immediately, he rushed out to inspect the blaze and arrived to see the entire factory engulfed in flame. Imagine having a piece of work on your laptop that glitches and gets deleted but a thousand times worse. The fire was unique because the flames were quoted as reaching the tips of the sky. The flames were spewing out all different colours. Reds, greens, blues, purples, oranges, whites, and yellows burst out of the building in what I imagine looked like the worlds deadliest rainbow. It would be conceivable if Edison in this moment had gone berserk and was consumed by rage and sadness but instead, he turned to the person who had told him about the fire and said “go and fetch your mother and all her friends. They will never see another fire like this ever again.” This thinking pattern was one of acceptance of the situation. This factory was bringing in $1,000,000 per year for him which is maybe $200,000,000 per year by todays standards. His acceptance of the situation and his reaction to it was importance. He had the factory partially running again within 3 weeks and was able to invest into a better plan for the building upon the restructure so that after 12 months, the factory now brought in $10,000,000 annually instead the $1,000,000. The obstacle that stood in the way in this case was a factory fire, and since this was out of Edison’s control it became the only way for him to go. So, he applied what he knew already about his factory and improved on those ideas to create something better. This distanced perspective allowed him the chance to improve his income and allowed for more investment in patents for inventions.
The last one is not a real-life story, but rather the application of this mindset in a fantasy world. More specifically, Hogwarts. J.K. Rowling has been a Marcus Aurelius fan for years and applied these lessons in her stories. Lord Voldemort is one such application of this stoic mindset in that he is the opposite of what a stoic is. He is not accepting of situations and allows emotions to take command of his actions. He tries to change his path after refusing to accept his death as an eventual reality and instead chases immortality. His pursuit leads him down a dark path of murder, lies, deception and ultimate wickedness. His constant attempts to control things that will not be and cannot be ultimately leads to his downfall. I am aware that the whole story is not a message on Stoicism but J.K. is a fan of Marcus Aurelius and Stoicism and it is perfectly believable that this has influenced her work with this character’s development.
These principles can be applied on a large or a small scale in everyday life. It is a life philosophy that requires practice rather than words. To be able to accept the things we cannot control even when they are harmful to us are, apply a healthy mindset to the situation and not only gain something from what hurt us but to gain more than we had before is always possible. There is a saying from ancient roman days that if one were to come along who can truly and deeply apply these methods, then not even Phalaris’ famous brazen bull could break them.